We Are Not Bullies! Also known as Words Matter!

/rant Lately I have noticed a trend towards using a term/word amongst BDSM practitioners for consensual BDSM activities…that word is bully (or bullying). In very recent times, twice I have encountered these words being used to describe consensual, fun BDSM activities…stuff we do all the time, what is generally called

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Nerve damage – Improving Our Terminology

It’s Not Just A Ping! There has been some discussions here at Evil Girls HQ of late with regards to terminology, especially relating to nerve damage. Many of you have heard My story about how I prefer not to use the word “Fainted” about someone in rope. “Fainted” infers visions

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